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By dev trash (Mon Aug 11, 2008 at 05:44:47 PM EST) (all tags)

What's so wrong with being friends?

That was the text message I was greeted with today at break. It was sent early Saturday morning. And it was from THAT_GAL.

Apparently the fuck off, of a few weeks ago didn't actually take hold. I've not talked to her, phoned her, IMed her, texted her, or had any other contact with her at all in the last few weeks.

And then this. WTF.

Come on HUSI, give me your thoughts. She's nuts? She's got a memory problem? She's in love? What?

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da bitches by MissTrish (4.00 / 2) #1 Mon Aug 11, 2008 at 06:09:15 PM EST

we gots issues

: We got issues, yes by R343L (2.00 / 0) #6 Mon Aug 11, 2008 at 07:06:10 PM EST

But most of us ain't like that. What a <redacted>.

"There will be time, there will be time / To prepare a face to meet the faces that you meet." -- Eliot
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stand fast... by MostlyHarmless (4.00 / 1) #2 Mon Aug 11, 2008 at 06:17:24 PM EST

She's trying to see if you're serious. The right answer is to ignore it...

-mh
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Dude, just post her phone number here by MohammedNiyalSayeed (4.00 / 4) #3 Mon Aug 11, 2008 at 06:25:25 PM EST

I'll take care of this, personally.

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You can build the most elegant fountain in the world, but eventually a winged rat will be using it as a drinking bowl.

: (Comment Deleted) by dev trash (4.00 / 1) #4 Mon Aug 11, 2008 at 06:28:06 PM EST

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With benefits? by marvin (4.00 / 7) #5 Mon Aug 11, 2008 at 06:34:04 PM EST

Why in that case there's nothing wrong with just being "friends", nothing at all.

If you revisit your diary of July 21, you will see that several people including clover kicker, joh3n, and anonimouse basically told you to expect this exact type of behaviour from her. She is messing with your head. She will always just be messing with your head. Either learn to ignore it or get used to frustration.

: ignored. by dev trash (2.00 / 0) #15 Tue Aug 12, 2008 at 05:57:06 PM EST

I am not what I could say to her any.

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Text back by anonimouse (4.00 / 2) #7 Mon Aug 11, 2008 at 08:42:12 PM EST

There's nothing wrong with being friends, except I'm looking for someone who wants to be more than just a friend.

Girls come and go but a mortgage is for 25 years -- JtL

: she knows this. by dev trash (2.00 / 0) #16 Tue Aug 12, 2008 at 05:57:40 PM EST

I've said it at least 2 times i can remember.

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Ignore by jump the ladder (4.00 / 1) #8 Mon Aug 11, 2008 at 10:44:41 PM EST

Anyway she wasn't being even a good friend to you in her recent behaviour so fuck her (metaphorically).

Or why not ask her to send a naked photo of herself as "proof" of friendship or some other stupid request and see how far you can push it?

: perhaps. by dev trash (2.00 / 0) #17 Tue Aug 12, 2008 at 05:58:53 PM EST

What's the worst that could happen?
Oh she could send me a nude, and STILL not want to sleep with me.

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wouldn't say she's in love by clover kicker (4.00 / 5) #9 Tue Aug 12, 2008 at 02:25:14 AM EST

I'd say she's massively insecure and craves attention.

You used to provide her with attention, and now you've cut her off. She misses that attention and her insecurity is making it that much worse, omg he should be paying attention but he's not paying attention omg why won't he talk to me?!?!?

She's actually very vulnerable right now, a skilled seduction artist could swoop in and be banging her by the weekend.

You, on the other hand, should continue to stay as far away as humanly possible, because your feelings for her make you even more vulnerable.

I'm only hearing one side of the story, she may be a decent human being to people who aren't /dev/trash, but as far as you're concerned she's pure kryptonite.

Are you a fan of Theodore Sturgeon? by lm (2.00 / 0) #10 Tue Aug 12, 2008 at 04:02:47 AM EST

The whole relationship sounds a lot like his short story ``It's you'' except without the sex and moving in together.

There is no more degenerate kind of state than that in which the richest are supposed to be the best.
Cicero, The Republic

: every cool story is me. by dev trash (2.00 / 0) #20 Tue Aug 12, 2008 at 06:02:48 PM EST

Except without the sex. C'est la vie.

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She wants to call you daddy by debacle (4.00 / 1) #11 Tue Aug 12, 2008 at 05:21:28 AM EST

Man up and put it in.

Seriously, a girl that "wants to be friends" and yet wont leave you the fuck alone wants it like Putin wants South Ossetia.

IF YOU HAVE TWO FIRLES THOROWNF MONEY ART SUOCIDE GIRLS STRIPPER HPW CAN YPUS :OSE?!?!?!?(elcevisides).

: normally I'd agree with ya. by dev trash (2.00 / 0) #18 Tue Aug 12, 2008 at 06:01:19 PM EST

But she's come out and said taht she has no desire to date or otherwise become intimate with me. However she wants to be my friend.

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She really, REALLY wants you in reserve. by nightflameblue (4.00 / 2) #12 Tue Aug 12, 2008 at 08:13:54 AM EST

Just in case she can't get it some other way. Girls like that like to keep a string of guys hanging on the line that they can reel in one at a time when they're needing a little pick-me-up. Don't be one of those guys.

Don't say no. Don't say anything. Ignoring her is the most punishing thing you can do to her. And the most sane thing you can do to yourself.

If you respond to her in any way . . . by slozo (2.00 / 0) #13 Tue Aug 12, 2008 at 11:21:02 AM EST

. . . YOU'RE the one with the memory problem, not her.

Learn from your mistakes! Profit!

: no replyin from me. by dev trash (4.00 / 1) #19 Tue Aug 12, 2008 at 06:02:00 PM EST

I's gots better things to do

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Dear sir by jimgon

(4.00 / 1) #14 Tue Aug 12, 2008 at 02:19:10 PM EST

Stay away from this person. I'm not sure that she's craving attention, but she's definitely playing a game. Unless you want to be abused I would suggest just deleting it and continue to delete it. Walk away, my friend, walk away.

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