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By dev trash (Mon Jan 21, 2008 at 11:08:42 PM EST) (all tags)
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So I tried redbox tonight.  Super simple to use, although the touch screen was not very receptive a few times.  Also the UI to select a film needs some major work.  I knew I wanted Superbad, but apparently the listings are not in alphabetical order.  And there didn't appear to be a Search function.  I had to search I think 6 screens before I found Superbad.  But that's really all that bad I have to say so far.  It allows you to start out with a coupon code, or to add one later.  I had one via SMS to my cellphone, which made tonight's rental free.  They also had a code at the kiosk, which is good if you've never rented before, for a free night.  My SMS deal was a free movie every Monday in January, so next week I shall rent another.  I was a little confused to where the DVD would be coming from, but once the arrow on the screen popped up, it all made sense.  It asked for an email address, I used my throwaway Yahoo account.  I checked it later and I had a receipt to print out.  Tomorrow after work, I'll return the DVD, hopefully that is as simple as getting one.


The movie tonight was Superbad.  Fat dudes who try to get laid have a soft spot in my heart, well because I'm a fat dude, just trying to get laid.  One has to either suspend belief about the reality of a fatass in high school scoring with the hot cool chick, or maybe being confident and sorta witty can get ya places?  Overall it was a pretty good movie.  McLovin was funny at places.  And the song scene in the bedroom was good.


The rule at work is.  You give notice, you can't take off any sick or personal or vacation days unless they were scheduled before you give notice.  This is clearly stated in the employee manual, which I would assume anyone looking to get the fuck out of dodge would consult so as to make the exit as painfree and enjoyable as can be.  Well apparently Mr. Weepy handed in his official resignation today, waited until my boss took it to her boss, thus making it really official, and then requested a personal day off this Friday.  He then became very pissed that he was denied the day off ( technically he could take it off but he needs the money.) even though the rules are applied to everyone who leaves.  He feels 1) that after 3 years he deserves a little respect 2) that since he's not leaving until the 8th of next month they can cut him some slack.  I feel bad for the guy.


Sitting at work today after a long hard coding exercise that ended with nothing accomplished, I zoned out a bit and for some reason I thought back to my freshman year in college and the missed opportunity of getting laid.  What if I had taken the signals as they has been presented and acted on them?  Would I still be with that same woman?  Would we have fallen in love?  Would we have kids now?  Even now I sit and think about, about how more outgoing I really am, and how I would so say all the right things to the right person right now if I had a chance.  I have the confidence, it just takes a little time to bust out.

I wanted to voice the previous paragraph, not the same way of course, to the coworker who is leaving 8th of Feb. when we went on our afternoon walk.  But he, was PISSED that eh can't take off Friday to get his fucking TIRES changed.

Also here's a top tip for anyone out there.  If, and this was at a job I held almost 8 years ago, a female coworker and yourself go on break to the outside deck every morning and every afternoon, and she asks you.  And she is disappointed when you are busy once or twice a week at that time.  She just might be into you.  Bonus tip: If she tells you almost every day for a week that she's broken up with her boyfriend, ASK HER OUT, because one day she's gonna tell you she finally gave her number to the guy at the bar she works at part time, and then eventually fall in love and get married.  Ask her out.  Because, 8 years on, you'll still be thinking about.  What. If.

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Regrets by curmudgeon (4.00 / 2) #1 Tue Jan 22, 2008 at 01:57:07 AM EST
I doubt it's much help but many people have them. Some, I suppose, are able to quickly put them aside, learn, and move on. Some are dwellers, who continually return to the regrets and wonder "what if". I suppose there's a middle ground of people who kick themselves for a while, then eventually get over it.

I suppose if the first group truly learns, then that's good. Though I think many who put aside their regrets quickly fail to learn from them. Maybe they can put them aside so easily because they keep regretting pissing on the electric fence, as it were.

Learning is the important thing. I don't know if you can choose not to be a dweller, I know I'm a dweller and it's difficult to even consciously stop myself. I will suddenly find myself dwelling on some long past mistake, miscue, or missed opportunity. So I know telling you to "try not to dwell on it" is pretty pointless.

So you've learned from your past mistake. Now the trick is to keep the lesson with you for the next time opportunity arises.
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I dunno by dev trash (2.00 / 0) #10 Tue Jan 22, 2008 at 08:56:34 PM EST
I can try to convince readers I'm not dwelling on the past, but meh.

I really wish I could turn the past hiccups I've made into a book or movie or a song.  Something, ya know?

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Or maybe by curmudgeon (2.00 / 0) #11 Wed Jan 23, 2008 at 11:31:03 PM EST
I'm just projecting and you're really not a dweller.
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nah by dev trash (2.00 / 0) #12 Thu Jan 24, 2008 at 06:50:28 PM EST
I do dwell.  Not all the time though.  I'm a part time dweller.

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I LOVE THE SMELL OF REGRET IN THE MORNING! by ammoniacal (2.00 / 0) #2 Tue Jan 22, 2008 at 07:12:11 AM EST
IT SMELLS LIKE . . . VICTORY!

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`what if?' is the path to madness by lm (4.00 / 1) #3 Tue Jan 22, 2008 at 08:17:30 AM EST
Well, at least if it's pointed backwards. Pointed forwards, it can be a good thing.

There is no more degenerate kind of state than that in which the richest are supposed to be the best.
Cicero, The Republic


It's Okay. by ammoniacal (2.00 / 0) #5 Tue Jan 22, 2008 at 08:52:03 AM EST
Unlike us, he has a Tardis.

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I had a cousin who was a tardis. by Christopher Robin was Murdered (4.00 / 1) #7 Tue Jan 22, 2008 at 06:36:40 PM EST
I always thought he was just kinda slow, you know? Anyway, nice enough kid. He tries his hardest. Heart of champion.

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meh by dev trash (2.00 / 0) #9 Tue Jan 22, 2008 at 08:48:18 PM EST


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denying lame duck vacation requests by houser2112 (2.00 / 0) #4 Tue Jan 22, 2008 at 08:47:33 AM EST
Why do companies do that, assuming they don't truly need every last day for knowledge transfer?  If you have paid vacation available (and they're a decent company, unlike a certain call center in Rochester that shares a name with Donald and Kiefer), they're going to be paying it out anyway after you're gone.  If you're strictly hourly with no paid vacation, it's money they don't have to pay out.  It doesn't make sense to me.



It's all about scheduling and knowledge transfer by lm (2.00 / 0) #6 Tue Jan 22, 2008 at 01:15:34 PM EST
There ain't much time for debriefing if someone puts in 2 weeks notice and then takes it as vacation.

There is no more degenerate kind of state than that in which the richest are supposed to be the best.
Cicero, The Republic
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aye by dev trash (2.00 / 0) #8 Tue Jan 22, 2008 at 08:43:16 PM EST
Although, this present company doesn't um, you know participate in knowledge transfer.  No.  Really.  I'll be left to learn any of the crap the 2nd dude was into when he's gone.

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