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By atreides (Sat Sep 01, 2007 at 02:06:58 AM EST) (all tags)
...and it's all because of work.


You see, before this week, I officed in a lovely spot. It was a desk with outside of the head partner's office. The downside is that I was at her beck and call at any moment for anything from the gravest need to the stupidest task1. The upside is that, since she has trouble walking, she doesn't leave her office much which means that I could do all the intar-webbing my heart desired as long as my work got done. Earlier this week, my position was moved. Now, I office next to her legal assistant. Her assistant is a nice, if somewhat banal, woman with three kids who are driving her crazy (one's ADD, one's in college and the last, well, is going through some bad psych problems because of a really, really terrible trauma of the fate worse than death variety unfortunately suffered last year). She also has a little problem, as far as I'm concerned. She seems to be of the belief that if I'm doing something other than working, I must need something to do. Now, while there's a certain ethic that says she's not entirely wrong, I can only say this much: I accomplish all my work and have time left over. She does not and, in fact, has had her work status recently downgraded to part time officially to give her more time to tend to her children's problems but in reality because she's been fucking up. Either way, this means that I'm not getting my full measure of daily reading, catching up and information absorption. So now I've begun spreading the time of my tasks out so she won't bother me. Nobody is served by this but, I guess this is the way of things.

So, the wedding fund has disappeared back down to zero again. It seems that every time it gets to about a grand, something happens to take it all away. The first time, we needed to get a new car. This time, between repairs on the old car (which still isn't quite running yet) and getting Welsh Girl back into school, it's down to next to nothing. So here I start again.

Oh, yeah, Welsh Girl is back in school. She finally taking that final dreaded math class to finish her degree. Then maybe she can get a better job than the one she has and I can be a kept man for a while. On the other hand, one of the state lotteries is up to $300 million so I might buy a ticket, too. She'll rock the class and get the sheepskin, but I'm sure I have about the same odds either way of becoming "kept".

Thanks to injuries, my 40K campaign is still unfinished. One person threw out his back. The other's girlfriend had a motor scooter accident that turned out to cause a brain hemorrhage. Hopefully the treatments they're doing right now will work or else they'll have to do brain surgery. Since she has no insurance, she'll be alive with destroyed credit for the rest of her life and in our culture, the two are almost synonymous. The point here is that on Labor Day, we're all gonna fight it out. Anyone who doesn't show forfeits but still, if I win this one, I win the entire thing. We're also prepping for two other campaigns, one of our own and one against another Austin group. We're actually looking at forming an official gaming club. If that happens, well, we'll do local events for GW, but we'll also get convention entrances, new minis and information and lots of other goodies. Getting free stuff for something I already do anyway doesn't bother me in the least as long as it's not a Nightwatch kind of thing or anything...

Well, that's about it. I'm going to let you all go now and go back to my baby who's watching one of my less favorite movies, Legends of the Fall and after that, we're gonna watch a little Dead Like Me.

And did I forget to mention that my best friend's younger sister who, to all accounts, is my younger sister, too, had her first sonogram. She's having a girl. I have dubbed it "Claire Jr."...

That is all.

1I don't mind the stupid tasks. I figure it this way. Every hour of stupid tasks I do for her is an hour she can work and therefore bill to clients. If I do 10 hours a month of these stupid tasks, she gets 10 hours to bill which comes out to more than I get paid in a month therefore, in my mind, justifying my paycheck. Any actual work I do over and above that is gravy...

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our plans by LilFlightTest (2.00 / 0) #1 Sat Sep 01, 2007 at 01:01:49 PM EST
to make nick a kept man haven't worked out too well...the piece of paper hasn't helped me get a job to keep him with, and even in one situation prevented me from getting the job. we'd hoped he could be a house husband while i used my degree to make enough to keep us on, but it's beginning to look more and more like i might just have to work part time and take care of the kids.

i shouldn't complain, though. i could have a job quite easily if i were willing to do one of two things: move to a larger city, or work second shift. the kind of life i want to have, though, seeing my family and having a yard and shortish commute, isn't going to happen if i do those things. so, i'm working outside my field, and hopefully i'll find a good job this way.
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Make him sell tupperware. by ObviousTroll (2.00 / 0) #2 Sat Sep 01, 2007 at 02:24:38 PM EST
I hear tuppermen are the up and coming thing, these days.

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kept by StackyMcRacky (4.00 / 1) #3 Sun Sep 02, 2007 at 04:24:03 PM EST
unless one has a bazillion dollars, can one truly be a kept man/woman?

when i quit my job (in a few months....i'm still getting pizaid!), clock will be the sole corporate whore.  however, i will be busting my ass doing all the crap around the house nobody wants to do so we can have ample family time when he's home.  it's all a trade-off.



"busting my ass doing all the crap" by vorheesleatherface (2.00 / 0) #4 Mon Sep 03, 2007 at 08:52:27 AM EST
Heh heh. Heh hee. uh huhuhuhuh. Beavis, that was pretty funny.

"Of course. I goatse my MP once a week!" - Hulver
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It's like having two bosses. by vorheesleatherface (2.00 / 0) #5 Mon Sep 03, 2007 at 09:20:08 AM EST
And having more than one person telling you what to do really sucks. I've been there before, having someone breathing down my neck. I wanted to kill them.  My advice is this, so long as you like your job and you're happy at work, work your ass off and become completely invaluable. Be the end-all authority over all that which is your job, be willing to go the extra mile all the time. Learn other people's jobs. Be The Man. Be the rock people can lean on. That way, everyone cuts you slack without even thinking they're doing it, and no one fucks with you. Also, it means if you decide you don't feel like being an errand boy any more, you don't have to. What is someone going to do when a person the Boss loves won't be a gopher for them? Rat you out to the Boss? I don't think  so.

Then again maybe you're indifferent about your employement, in which case, to heck with it. Slide by until you find something better.

Me, I work my ass off, put in lots of extra long days, and shoulder a lot of responsibility. My supervisor burns copies of movies for me to watch when it gets slow.

"Of course. I goatse my MP once a week!" - Hulver


Wouldn't work that way... by atreides (2.00 / 0) #6 Mon Sep 03, 2007 at 03:50:14 PM EST
If my boss (and the crazy boss is really my boss' boss) thought I was free, I'd end up doing stuff for this assistant anyway. I'm so so well liked because I am the go-to guy for weird stuff. And until one of the legal assistants moves on (and that's not entirely impossible but I haven't heard that from the person who might leave or the parties which might kick her out), but that's a bit of a curve and a lot more work for what probably doesn't amount to a lot more pay (though it could be 25% raise and experience for the future).

Translation: I like who I work for, I just don't like people micromanaging me. And this assistant might and I really can't do much about it...

He sails from world to world in a flying tomb, serving gods who eat hope.
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micromanaging. by vorheesleatherface (2.00 / 0) #7 Mon Sep 03, 2007 at 04:11:45 PM EST
Bingo. I understand completely. Good luck. :)

"Of course. I goatse my MP once a week!" - Hulver
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