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By StackyMcRacky (Fri Aug 31, 2007 at 04:28:10 PM EST) (all tags)
just some stuff, bullet style


  • My feet are looking less and less like piggy feet every day.  4 days on an IV did not treat them well

  • My milk came in on Monday evening.  oh.  my.  god.  My boobs are huge.  Huger than huge.  My bust is now 10 inches larger than my chest.  My back is in severe pain.  We ordered a gigantic nursing bra for me (even my specality shop doesn't carry my  new size) and we'll see if it helps.

  • My tummy is getting smaller and smaller every day.

  • My incision alternates between slightly painful and quite uncomfortable.

  • My face still has a yellow color to it, and my eyelids are brownish.  I still look pretty ill.

  • I'm writing a rather long entry that details the labor and delivery.  The events really traumatized me, so I'm hoping that posting will help.

  • The day after my delivery, I had a fever and the nurses refused to believe me.  My normal body temperature runs about 1 degree lower than "normal" so when my temperature is 99.5+ I feel like I'm dying.  After a morning of arguing with nurses, they finally sent my doctor in and she immediately put me on antibiotics.  The next morning I felt infinitely better.

  • About 6 hours after they removed my epidural, I went through what felt like a drug detox.  Not fun.

  • Another thing they don't tell you about pregnancy is the postpartum period.  I'm suffering from some rather nasty hot flashes.  Again, not fun.

  • Everybody who pitched fits about how the dog was going to do with the baby can just fuck the hell off.  If you actually take the time to properly train and socialize your dog, there aren't problems.  Porschea has taken to the dude, and she checks up on him all the time.  What's cute is how she's become a "mom" to him - if I'm in the bathroom and he's crying, she starts barking at me through the door to let me know.  Also - she's not stressed anymore, which makes me very happy.

  • All the pregnancy pain I had was gone almost immediately after the dude was born (at least, as soon as I got feeling back in my lower body).  No more bloody gums!  No more bloody congestion!  No more feeling like I have severe arthritis in my hands!  No more crotch pain!

  • I can shave my legs again, even above the knee.  This is partly because I can see most of my legs as well as being able to reach them.

  • The dude is so cute, I just want to snuggle him all the time (warning: arm cholic!).  I love taking naps with him during the day (Arm Cholic!), and once or twice he's slept with us in the bed (ARM CHOLIC!). 

  • The dude is a really good baby.  We get 6-8 hours of sleep every night (although it usually starts at midnight, which is a bit late for me).  Eat, sleep, poop.  He only cries when he's hungry.  He's really making up for such a crap pregnancy and delivery.

    That's all for now.  I think I'm going to take a nap (baby has to grow, I still have lots of healing to do).

    PS - finished season 2 of B5.  Still think Sheridan is a wanker, but I'm loving the series even more!

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    quick comment by MostlyHarmless (2.00 / 0) #1 Fri Aug 31, 2007 at 04:33:54 PM EST
     \o/
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    quick retort by debacle (4.00 / 1) #3 Fri Aug 31, 2007 at 04:42:16 PM EST
    \(       )/

    "I'm very responsive to certain stimuli, and pain is pretty much at the top of that list." - BadDoggie

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    Welcome back by georgeha (2.00 / 0) #2 Fri Aug 31, 2007 at 04:42:02 PM EST
    Mrs. Ha had some severe post partum depression, especially with eleven year old.




    Still no hires by debacle (4.00 / 2) #4 Fri Aug 31, 2007 at 04:47:41 PM EST
    Did I miss them?

    Glad you and the baby are doing okay.

    Is traumatized really the right word? Would you do it again?

    Sorry about your boobs. (clock - congrats on the boobs!)


    "I'm very responsive to certain stimuli, and pain is pretty much at the top of that list." - BadDoggie



    hires? by StackyMcRacky (2.00 / 0) #10 Fri Aug 31, 2007 at 06:53:51 PM EST
    i'm confused?

    yes, traumatized is the right word.  sometimes i dream about what happened, and i wake up in tears.  i'm very unsure about having another.

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    High resolution, he means. by toxicfur (2.00 / 0) #14 Fri Aug 31, 2007 at 08:37:50 PM EST
    And it seems to me - not having been here - that now is exactly the wrong time to think about whether you want another kid or not. Enjoy your dude, and recover from what you've been through. Take good care of yourself, because you really have been through a trauma. That's all stuff you already know of course, and I don't have a kid, but just in case you need confirmation from a random internet person. :)

    Also, I always thought my Teh Dawg would've made an awesome nanny (Rocky would probably just be afraid). And my nanny when I was a little kid was a Doberman-German shepherd mix, and she was amazing with me. I've known all along that Porschea would be wonderful with the dude, and I can't believe anybody would have imagined otherwise.
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    If you don't get a Bonnie, my universe will not make sense. --blixco
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    the shepherd-dobermans by LilFlightTest (4.00 / 1) #17 Fri Aug 31, 2007 at 11:02:09 PM EST
    are incredibly smart, and very interested in doing the guarding/supervision thing. i had one for all of three days (years ago a neighbor moved and left him, and i kept him while trying to find him a home) and in that short time i was constantly impressed with how easily he learned things, and how well he waited for my instructions before doing anything.

    i agree that anyone who didn't think the dog would be good with kids didn't know the dog.
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    if de-virgination results in me being able to birth hammerhead sharks, SIGN ME UP!!! --misslake
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    Undoubtedly a case for English diaeresis symbols by ambrosen (4.00 / 2) #18 Sat Sep 01, 2007 at 07:11:25 AM EST
    Hirës would be completely unambiguous. And dorky. But the former's what counts.

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    take your time by LilFlightTest (2.00 / 0) #16 Fri Aug 31, 2007 at 10:55:22 PM EST
    i've mentioned my mom had similarly bad pregnancies, and she once told me the reason we're all so far apart is because it took her 3-4 years to even be able to imagine going through it again.

    if you want more kids, a few years down the road it'll stop sounding like such a bad idea. if you, clock, and your doc think you can handle it, decide then whether to try again, not now while it's still fresh in your mind.
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    if de-virgination results in me being able to birth hammerhead sharks, SIGN ME UP!!! --misslake
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    #HUG# Welcome back, friend. by greyrat (2.00 / 0) #5 Fri Aug 31, 2007 at 04:48:02 PM EST
    Sounds like you'll probably not try for a second one. But the first one sounds perfect. Warning though: Wait a few weeks before you decide he's the perfect baby.

    #HUG#



    Yay! by ambrosen (2.00 / 0) #6 Fri Aug 31, 2007 at 04:58:02 PM EST
    I needed a smile. And I got it from you.



    Old Joke. . . by BaconAndWaffles (2.00 / 0) #7 Fri Aug 31, 2007 at 05:04:01 PM EST
    "Ah, you have a trick baby."
    "Huh?"
    "They trick you into having another!"

    I only have one, and he was not very difficult - eat, sleep, poop.  Rinse and repeat.  My advise, don't tell people that your little dude is really good.  People will say, wait till later or wait till the next one or you look terrible, it must be harder than you say.  Of course, if you tell them he is difficult half of them will try to top your baby story.  You can't win.

    The moral is:  only share with internet strangers that you can ignore!

    Enjoy your baby and this time!  I miss being able to snuggle with my little dude (he is two and won't sit or lie still for any length of time).

    Congrats!



    Have you tried Benadryl? by georgeha (2.00 / 0) #8 Fri Aug 31, 2007 at 05:07:56 PM EST
    A local daycare swears by it.


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    Benadryl by BaconAndWaffles (2.00 / 0) #15 Fri Aug 31, 2007 at 10:16:47 PM EST
    I have used Benadryl, but it doesn't seem to have the magical effects that it does on some kids.

    And I didn't mean he literally won't stop, he is just isn't interested in being passive, he wants to be doing stuff - reading, legos, puzzles, drawing, anyhting.  I love that he is so active, but I just miss him sitting on my lap and relaxing/sleeping. 

    He doesn't even like to watch much TV, which I am happy about, but sometimes I really wish he would so I can make dinner!  My solution is to let him help.

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    For the non-Rochesterians in the house by houser2112 (2.00 / 0) #21 Tue Sep 04, 2007 at 06:06:17 PM EST
    ... who may not know the story like we do: link

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    family repiles with by StackyMcRacky (4.00 / 2) #11 Fri Aug 31, 2007 at 06:55:39 PM EST
    "thank god he's a good baby.  after what you've been through, you deserve one!"

    clock is already searching for a work camp we can send him to when he turns 11.

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    Awesome! by ucblockhead (2.00 / 0) #9 Fri Aug 31, 2007 at 05:12:15 PM EST
    I totally envy you because season 3 is the best season.

    Oh, yeah, and congrats on on the baby thing! Welcome to the parent club. You too can now talk endlessly to your single friends about how it has changed everything and they just don't get it!

    The secret of kids is this. There's hard bits and good bits. Every few months the hard bits go away, to be replaced with other hard bits, and the good bits go away to be replaced with other good bits. In other words, don't worry, it gets easier, and just you wait, it gets harder!

    And start practicing this phrase: "Please take the $X out of your nose this instant!"
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    funny stuff by sasquatchan (2.00 / 0) #12 Fri Aug 31, 2007 at 07:27:54 PM EST
    the mrs said shaving her legs (and touch-up bikini area) was the first thing she'd do after having the kid.. Big belly rubbing against underwear/high bikini area was her complaint. Hair where it wasn't normally, and wasn't comfortable.

    Keep using the ice packs when you nap.




    i wasn't given ice packs by StackyMcRacky (2.00 / 0) #13 Fri Aug 31, 2007 at 07:52:33 PM EST
    but that is a good idea.

    i've been taking 800mg of ibuprofin every 8 hours (since Saturday night), and that's it.

    the best thing is that every day i feel better than the day before.

    shaving made me feel more human than i've felt in a while.  that, and the worse-than-teenager grade skin oil and acne leaving.

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    TYVM by Breaker (2.00 / 0) #19 Sun Sep 02, 2007 at 08:53:16 AM EST
    Glad to hear you're feeling better. 

    So, when do we wet the baby's head then?




    Glad to hear you're healing well. by vorheesleatherface (2.00 / 0) #20 Mon Sep 03, 2007 at 08:39:33 AM EST
    That's good news. Sorry to hear about the stupid nurses not listening to you. That's agrivating to hear. You're not the first person to tell a story about dumbass nurses. I'm pleased the doc took care of you in spite of their foolishness. Had you gotten a severe systemic infection it would have been very upsetting. I'm happy that wasn't the case

    Sorry to hear about the back pain. You've officially exceeded the acceptable size limit for the wonder twins. Not. Cool At. All. Here's hoping they get back under control soon. I hear a little vitamin E helps with tenderness, should you be able to take any while nursing. And I highly recommend seeing a physical therapist for your back once the rest of you is healed up. My little Woman has had lots of back problems over the past couple years and since she started seeing a PT and performing the PTs recommended stretches and exercises once a day, it has made a big difference. Really really big. I'm sure a good therapist could help you deal with your extra boobage. (As I type this all I keep hearing in my head is Darrell Hammond impersonating Sean Connery "I take The Rapist for 500 Alex.")

    Best wishes for the three of you. More pictures!

    "Of course. I goatse my MP once a week!" - Hulver


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