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I just ate about 7 pounds of meat
-theantix

Take time to grieve; as much as you need.

Power up your flaming yo-yos already! --StackyMcRacky

 Statistics rarely comfort, true. They're trying to tell you that you're not alone, but it is unique to you and Andi. And there is still more love in the family.

"I don't have time for martial law, I have to get to the gym!" zarathus

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But I send condolences.

Look after yourselves, and (I hope I'm not being patronising or intrusive here) make sure you don't let the thought "Maybe it wouldn't have happened if I hadn't..." cross Andi's mind.

But mainly I send sympathy, because that's better for you than pisspoor advice from a congenitally single man.

for you both. It sounds like you are dealing with it as best you can. Being there and just getting through it. Many hugs.
*twinkle*twinkle*

*littlestar.

Take care of yourselves, and my thoughts are with you.
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If you don't get a Bonnie, my universe will not make sense. --blixco

Take care all of you.
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One thing that always got to me is that there are a bunch of fucking assholes out there that say, "Oh, you can have another baby and forget all about what happened." Those people should be put to death.

My wife's miscarriage was back in June of last year, and since it was our first potential child it was devastating. We worked so hard and did all the right things, and we still lost that one.

We since had our daughter and that did bring happiness to our lives, but it didn't fill the hole of the loss of the first pregnancy. I even thought about what had happened today. I don't think about it every day, but I do often and I will never forget. If I had religion like my wife, I could believe that he went to be a guardian angel for his little sister. Unfortunately, I have no such beliefs and just see the great loss for what it is. A miscarriage is a death, as sure as if any other loved one dies. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise, and you and your family deserve the time to mourn that you need.

You have my condolences.
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That's what I always say about you, boz, you have a good memory for random facts about pussy. -- joh3n

my mother told me that miscarriages are for the best, because there must be something really wrong with the baby if you miscarry. Her words didn't help me at the time, but I understand now that she was probably right.

Maybe her words will help you?

"It means more if you have to earn it, even if it's by doing something as simple as eating a meal." Kellnerin

Pints and hugs all around for everyone at this difficult time.

My son was supposed to be twins, his fellow 'became inviable' around the sixth month and we had about two months of panic while we waited to see what would happen to the fetus who would eventually become our son. And the boy, once born, seemed to know what had happened. He's always been sensitive to deaths of relatives and separation from friends.

You might want to let the boys know what happened sometime soon. They could provide more comfort that you realize to you both.

I'm so sorry.
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There is absolutely no correlation or causation amongst intelligence, power, talent and wealth.
Kha-Nyou

We've been through two miscarriages this year and it just sucks. Take care of each other.

I'm sorry for your loss.

Gedvondur
"It is virtually impossible to effectively aim a jellyfish, a creature created by God almost solely for the purpose of not flying."- CRwM

Better luck next time.

Hopefully the D&C will be unnecessary.

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"I'm very responsive to certain stimuli, and pain is pretty much at the top of that list." - BadDoggie

Hope you all feel better soon.

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Yes! The Conspiracy Really Exists...

so sorry to hear about that, my thoughts are with you guys.

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