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By StackyMcRacky (Fri Apr 20, 2007 at 12:12:54 PM EST) (all tags)
then again, every day is a sleepy one for me.


Crappy week.

One of my new bras broke.  The strap couldn't take the weight any longer.  I'm going to try to sew it back together, so we'll see.

We went to the freezer to pull out some meat and.....the freezer had died at some point so we are now the proud owners of 150lbs of spoiled meat.  The freezer is like 6 weeks old.  We're hoping to get reimbursed for the meat somehow, but we'll see.

All kinds of annoying little things gone wrong for my project.  From an asswipe telling the CE to install the hardware in the wrong place (you can't have an I/O expansion drawer 2 racks away from the actual server!), to wrong parts being shipped, etc.  Fortunately, it all magically came together.

Wrong size hubcap was ordered.  Stupid confusing web site!

I have heard jack-squat about another thing I ordered.  Hrm, I should call about it now....and all operators were busy, so I left a message.  I'll call again later.

REI was supposed to get my fatty-friendly shoes on Wednesday, but it's been put off until next Tuesday. 

My lovely county taxing authority decided my home is worth $130,000.  HA!  There is no way in hell my home would sell for that much if I put it on the market today.  Honestly, I'd be lucky if it sold for $120k.  So now I get to go argue with the tax man.  Well, my father will probably have to do it on my behalf, because you send in a form and they schedule you for a hearing sometime between July and Sept.  clock and I might be busy on our scheduled date, so my dad is going to do it for us.

Yeah, all a bunch of little things, but I'm just having a hard time dealing these days.  Too much on my mind, too much going on.  Hard to keep up.

Fun stuff at work - 3 weeks ago, I told our interface group that they'd have to do their own disaster recovery test, as I can't go in at midnight, etc.  They were cool with it then, the senior person just pushing it off on another guy.  Well, said guy has since quit.  Anyway, the senior person has been running around the office the last few months proclaiming that she has 15 years of unix admin experience.  So this week, she realized that she would have to run the DR test, and freaked out.  She has been emailing me excuse after excuse all week.  Well, we had a meeting this morning - her, the other dude on her team, her boss, my boss, me.  My boss laid the smack-down!  It was beautiful!  I even got to bust her on her "15 years of unix admin experience."  It's the little joys in life that make it worth living.

I'm wearing my "Jonah and the Whale" necklace today.  I feel it's apropos - I'm the whale with a little dude inside.  Plus, it totally goes with my outfit and makes me look less hobo-like.

I think we're going to make a trip to Austin in a few weekends.  If we don't go now we're not going to have another chance for quite a while.

With the help of a consultant, we've totally re-built my Tivoli server.  It's beautiful.  Managing the backup system will now take up far more of my time on a daily basis, which is fine with me.  Hooray for offsite backups!

I'm pretty pleased with our money situation overall.  I think we're on track.  Finances are the thing stressing me the most wrt the little dude.  Now that I see our plan working out, I think it's going to be OK.  I'm feeling much less anxiety than I was in Dec/Jan over it.

Why are people so rude when it comes to pregnancy?  At a party over the weekend, all I got was a bunch of doom and gloom from people: "it's going to get much worse, just you wait and see!!"  "all my friends tell me that if you gain over 35 lbs, you'll never lose that weight!" etc.  WTF?  Would it kill people to be nice or encouraging every now and again?  Of course, the thing I hate the most is when people say that our lives are over once we have the kid.  Um....I don't think so.  Idiots.  I'm struggling enough as it is, I don't need to hear anything else negative.

Again, I really wish I were in a position to just quit my job today.  It just isn't worth all the crap.

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Negativity ? by Phage (4.00 / 3) #1 Fri Apr 20, 2007 at 12:19:32 PM EST
That's plain weird. Personally I'm rather jealous of you both.

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weird, huh? by StackyMcRacky (4.00 / 2) #2 Fri Apr 20, 2007 at 12:23:44 PM EST
yeah, I get far more negative comments about being pregnant than anything else.

it's really helping my theory that "everying you hear about pregnancy is a giant steaming pile of hippie crap."

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s/hippie/repressed Conservative/ by greyrat (4.00 / 1) #11 Fri Apr 20, 2007 at 01:29:44 PM EST

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There is absolutely no correlation or causation amongst intelligence, power, talent and wealth.
Kha-Nyou
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Down with Negative Nancies. by lb008d (4.00 / 2) #7 Fri Apr 20, 2007 at 01:04:16 PM EST
I enjoy these and clock's diaries a lot - it's nice to read about two responsible, intelligent people who are going to raise a kid the right way. It definitely makes a huge dent in my cynicism.

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i really, really hope that we do well with the kid by StackyMcRacky (4.00 / 2) #16 Fri Apr 20, 2007 at 01:44:58 PM EST
my cousin raised 3 wonderful kids.  they're bright, fun, sane and not whiny idiot punk retards.  all-around wonderful human beings.  my greatest hope is that i can do even half as good of a job as she did.  all my online persona trolling and silliness aside, i really want to raise a child to be part of the solution to the world and not just add to the oh-so-numerous problems.

clock is going to be an awesome dad.

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best laid plans... by Dr H0ffm4n (4.00 / 1) #43 Sat Apr 21, 2007 at 07:09:59 AM EST
btw, There is not 'right' way to raise kids.

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RE: Rude people by greyrat (4.00 / 1) #3 Fri Apr 20, 2007 at 12:35:24 PM EST
What do you care? All that matters is what clock thinks -- well, and what you think. That applies to teh mother too.

Stupid people. Just remember my sig.
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There is absolutely no correlation or causation amongst intelligence, power, talent and wealth.
Kha-Nyou


it's not that i care, per se by StackyMcRacky (4.00 / 2) #5 Fri Apr 20, 2007 at 12:50:41 PM EST
it's that i get annoyed at it.  i'd rather not be surrounded by negativity, ya know?

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Maybe you need "The Secret" by georgeha (4.00 / 2) #6 Fri Apr 20, 2007 at 12:59:05 PM EST
you have to watch Oprah, though.


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no. Oprah. evar. by StackyMcRacky (4.00 / 1) #17 Fri Apr 20, 2007 at 01:45:22 PM EST


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You're going to need something to fill those day by georgeha (4.00 / 2) #23 Fri Apr 20, 2007 at 01:51:04 PM EST
hours on maternity leave. Maybe Montel and soaps then?


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like a good cylon by StackyMcRacky (4.00 / 2) #24 Fri Apr 20, 2007 at 01:56:06 PM EST
i have a Plan.

it does not include TV of any kind.

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Baby's First Command Line! by georgeha (4.00 / 4) #30 Fri Apr 20, 2007 at 02:03:36 PM EST



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And that would be "WHAAAAAAAA!!!" by greyrat (4.00 / 2) #33 Fri Apr 20, 2007 at 02:06:26 PM EST

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There is absolutely no correlation or causation amongst intelligence, power, talent and wealth.
Kha-Nyou
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If the child by jayhawk88 (4.00 / 2) #34 Fri Apr 20, 2007 at 02:59:13 PM EST
...cannot win a Civ4 space race by his 2nd birthday, several of us will be very disappointed in you.

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people ask us by StackyMcRacky (4.00 / 3) #35 Fri Apr 20, 2007 at 03:17:08 PM EST
if we're going to install some kind of internet content filtering.

we say "yes."  the reason?  because if the kid can't circumvent it, then he doesn't deserve to be our child!

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I have Internet content filtering installed by greyrat (4.00 / 1) #38 Fri Apr 20, 2007 at 04:03:06 PM EST
Me: "Go there if you want to. But if I find you there, I'll ground you back to the Stone Age. And if you hose your computer, you're fixing it."
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There is absolutely no correlation or causation amongst intelligence, power, talent and wealth.
Kha-Nyou
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Well then take their negativity. Accept it. by greyrat (4.00 / 1) #8 Fri Apr 20, 2007 at 01:09:41 PM EST
Literally hold it in your hand. Consider it and thank them for it. And then shove it right up their ass as far as your arm will go.
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There is absolutely no correlation or causation amongst intelligence, power, talent and wealth.
Kha-Nyou
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perhaps what you're forgetting here by StackyMcRacky (4.00 / 3) #19 Fri Apr 20, 2007 at 01:48:07 PM EST
is that i am now completely insane.  things like getting a lot of negative commentary makes me want to cut everybody down with a machete, and not in the funny ha-ha figurative way that i used to want to.

every day is a serious struggle for me.  getting a lot of unasked for negative crap dumped on me makes it that much harder to just make it until the end of the day.  sure, you're supposed to ignore it, but that isn't always the easiest thing to do, especially when your mind is no longer what it once was.

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Upside down home values by wiredog (4.00 / 1) #4 Fri Apr 20, 2007 at 12:38:37 PM EST
From The Post: 'Upside Down' Home Sellers Owe More Than They Get.

Sew the bra strap back together with steel cable. ;)

The negative ones are just jealous.

Earth First!
(We can strip mine the rest later.)



fortunately by StackyMcRacky (4.00 / 1) #12 Fri Apr 20, 2007 at 01:33:31 PM EST
i'm not upside-down in the house.  I got a really good deal on it at the time.

Also, it's a house that - in a worst-case situation - clock and I could live in with kids for a long time to come.  It wouldn't be our ideal home, etc. but it's big enough and the payments are reasonable.

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Interesting use of language by Breaker (4.00 / 1) #27 Fri Apr 20, 2007 at 02:00:33 PM EST
Between here and USia; over here it's referred to "negative equity".


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"upside down" by StackyMcRacky (4.00 / 1) #28 Fri Apr 20, 2007 at 02:01:33 PM EST
is a relatively new term being used.

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Mental image... by Breaker (4.00 / 2) #31 Fri Apr 20, 2007 at 02:03:44 PM EST
I have is that the house is now roof-down!


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Brassiere : Warranty by ammoniacal (4.00 / 1) #9 Fri Apr 20, 2007 at 01:21:34 PM EST
Freezer : Warranty

Meat : Homeowner's Insurance?

General rules are: All skirts no lower then [sic] two inches below the knee (unless it's for Church) --Travis Frey


Yeah, but just how much food do people keep by georgeha (4.00 / 3) #10 Fri Apr 20, 2007 at 01:26:31 PM EST
in their fridges and freezers. We need a poll.


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the meat cost $500+ by StackyMcRacky (4.00 / 1) #21 Fri Apr 20, 2007 at 01:50:10 PM EST


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Well by dev trash (4.00 / 1) #42 Fri Apr 20, 2007 at 06:56:16 PM EST
They're dealing with a dedicated freezer, which I'd wager could hold a lot of food.  Me I just had a fridge/freezer unit

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Homeowners Insurance? by greyrat (4.00 / 1) #13 Fri Apr 20, 2007 at 01:36:47 PM EST
Do you want to make a $500 dollar claim (if you deductible is that low -- and if it is, you should raise it) and have your 'no claim' deduction removed from your policy for FIVE YEARS?!? As our local agent told us: Use your policy when the house burns down, or there's four feet of water in the basement. Don't use it when the power goes out for a week and you have to replace your food. She also pointed out: Every time you call the national number, they'll probably record it as a claim, even if you're just getting information about whether filing a claim might or might not be worthwhile. Always call your local agent first to avoid that trap.

And now you know.
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There is absolutely no correlation or causation amongst intelligence, power, talent and wealth.
Kha-Nyou
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Looks like someone needs a better insurance co.! by ammoniacal (4.00 / 1) #14 Fri Apr 20, 2007 at 01:43:39 PM EST
Free Market, man.

General rules are: All skirts no lower then [sic] two inches below the knee (unless it's for Church) --Travis Frey
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They ALL work that way. by greyrat (4.00 / 1) #15 Fri Apr 20, 2007 at 01:44:36 PM EST
Trust me. They just may not tell you up front.
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There is absolutely no correlation or causation amongst intelligence, power, talent and wealth.
Kha-Nyou
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"Trust me" by ammoniacal (4.00 / 1) #18 Fri Apr 20, 2007 at 01:45:55 PM EST
Last time I heard that, I was saddled with 18 years of child support payments.

General rules are: All skirts no lower then [sic] two inches below the knee (unless it's for Church) --Travis Frey
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The first bill is in the mail. by greyrat (4.00 / 1) #20 Fri Apr 20, 2007 at 01:49:27 PM EST
And are you not 'working' whilst the missus is away?
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There is absolutely no correlation or causation amongst intelligence, power, talent and wealth.
Kha-Nyou
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might as well by alprazolam (4.00 / 2) #25 Fri Apr 20, 2007 at 01:57:33 PM EST
if you get flooded they'll just tell you that you don't have hurricane/flood coverage, if it burns they'll tell you that you're not covered due to negligence/arson/whatever other bs excuse they can think of.

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as much as i pay for bras by StackyMcRacky (4.00 / 2) #22 Fri Apr 20, 2007 at 01:51:00 PM EST
they should come with a warranty.

meat: cost of said meat is less than my homeowner's deductable.  we're going to nag the freezer people and see if they'll cough up part of it, and then see exactly how good AmEx's "buyer protection" is.

freezer: oh yes, they WILL come out and replace/repair it.

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I'm sure the Bra Store will do an exchange/refund. by ammoniacal (4.00 / 3) #26 Fri Apr 20, 2007 at 01:58:37 PM EST
I can't imagine that they wouldn't support their products.

General rules are: All skirts no lower then [sic] two inches below the knee (unless it's for Church) --Travis Frey
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bwhahahahahahahaah by StackyMcRacky (4.00 / 3) #29 Fri Apr 20, 2007 at 02:02:27 PM EST
that's a funny one.

it isn't like i bought this bra last week or anything.

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<rimshot!> by greyrat (4.00 / 2) #32 Fri Apr 20, 2007 at 02:04:36 PM EST

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There is absolutely no correlation or causation amongst intelligence, power, talent and wealth.
Kha-Nyou
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Ha! by dev trash (4.00 / 1) #41 Fri Apr 20, 2007 at 06:54:22 PM EST
If it's State Farm I am sure they have a small print clause whereas you'd need to pay 3000 bucks before they'd even look at the claim.

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People are negative about marriage too by theboz (4.00 / 5) #36 Fri Apr 20, 2007 at 03:33:32 PM EST
I've seen it a lot as well. All the "ha-ha! your happy hours are over!" comments from coworkers, all the crap from everyone does add up. But it doesn't matter, it's all bullshit. Of course having a baby will result in more responsibilities and there are definite negative aspects. However, I think most of the truly negative people are just stupid.

I remember when I was about to get married and all these guys I worked with would tell me all this negative crap about it. I didn't believe them, but it still wore me down a bit. Here I am, nearing five years, and none of the stuff they've mentioned has come true. It's been much better than single life. The difference seems to be that my wife and I look at marriage and now pregnancy in a positive light. As far as our marriage is concerned, she tries not to nag me and I try not to be an asshole. It's a good trade off and it keeps things going smoothly. Raising a kid should be the same. The sleep deprivation will be taxing on us, and the extra responsibility will reduce some of the fun things we like to do. There is a trade off though. I'm a big kid, and this means I'll get to go play on swing sets and slides and stuff without looking like a creepy man. It will make things like Christmas fun again. I'll get to raise her to appreciate the things I like, which she will then rebel against and piss me off, but then I'll have the last laugh when she gets older and realizes that I was correct all along. There are lots of good things that happen too and people don't focus on them enough. Why? Because they're a bunch of bitches. That's why.
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amen by StackyMcRacky (4.00 / 3) #39 Fri Apr 20, 2007 at 04:03:31 PM EST
this is one of the times I wish we had 7s

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getting married was the best thing that by cam (4.00 / 2) #40 Fri Apr 20, 2007 at 05:06:42 PM EST
happened to me. Without doubt.

cam
Freedom, liberty, equity and an Australian Republic
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life not over by LilFlightTest (4.00 / 1) #37 Fri Apr 20, 2007 at 03:51:23 PM EST
just different. i'd like to cause my life to be different in that way too, but we'd also like to take care of a few other things on the list first.
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