Print Story When I Was Just A Baby...
Diary
By atreides (Wed Apr 12, 2006 at 01:27:20 PM EST) unprovoked ranting (all tags)
My mama told me "Son,
Always be a good boy,
Don't ever play with guns."
But I shot a man in Reno
Just to watch him die.
When I hear that whistle blowing,
I hang my head and cry...


I saw Walk The Line last night. I'm not entirely sure why this got Oscar nominations. Well, actually, I am. I'm sure the thinking was "Hey, we like Johnny Cash and Ray was such an awesome movie. Let's go with this one, too!". I'm sure that describes the thought process behind it's production also. Ultimately, it's mediocrity in extremis. I came out of it with little more interest in the man than I had going into it. Maximum broad appeal, minimum anything else. How this movie gets anything more than a 6.5/10, I'll never guess. Sucks, too. I really wanted to like it. But this is not what's really on my mind...

I was thinking about another subject for a diary when I ran into this. Oh, Jeebus. This is one of the dumbest things I've ever read. Sure, I think their testing methodology looks kinda weak and unreliable, but that's not it.

People have known since pretty much the beginning of time that young men can be agressive and sometimes exhibit destructive behaviors. Why do they do this? Well for a number of reasons. There's genetics specifically testosterone. It drives men to be agressive to get what they want because those are the people who tend to get ahead. Not only that, such men can be better hunters/providers for offspring. There's social issues. Boys want to be brave in front of their friends because they want friends and brave in front of girls because they want girls and acts of bravado and fearlessness and such tend to get respect and/or admiration from both sexes. There's developmental issues. It's the agressive boy who grows up into the man who understands that fighting and doing stupid stuff isn't the only way to live and learns when to fight and when not to fight. My point here is "Where is the outlet for young men to be young men?" Well, there's sports. Football, soccer, hockey and a few others can fill a certain niche but most sports go out of their way to avoid even basic contact. Some have taken such non-contact sports to literal extremes to get something out of them approximation satisfaction and fulfillment. Alright, there's certain genres of music that accept and embrace such things. Why do you think Metal and Punk and Rap are so seductive to young men? Apart from those, I'm not thinking of anything a young man can go out and do to scratch that itch that won't get him in real trouble. Why? Because those agressive urges are not as important as they once were and now many people seek to penalize those behaviors instead of reward them or even merely allow them as part of the package. Why am I bothering with all this? Because video games are one of the last "proving grounds". No, they don't involve real violence but they do sublimate a need that many young men feel. They can go in to their game, kill some goblins or blow up some ships or beat that guy's head in with a bat and then go about their way with less of an angry desire. Sure, there will always be a few who take it too far, but there have always been those and will always be those. And I'm certainly not advocating real violence or wife beating or anything horrible like that. Video games (among other things) are a valve for those feelings and these pigfuckers are trying to say that being a young man is wrong. They're trying to kill off one of our last best hopes for keeping young men from turning into emo-bois. And that galls me like you can't believe.

That is all.

< Cincinnatus vs Cincinnatus | BBC White season: 'Rivers of Blood' >
When I Was Just A Baby... | 4 comments (4 topical, 0 hidden) | Trackback
I wonder ... by lm (2.00 / 0) #1 Wed Apr 12, 2006 at 01:42:08 PM EST
... if that is the same study that my psychologist mother was telling me about. If so, one of the conclusions was that the reason that video games make kids more aggressive is that the kids don't actually get violent. The theory my mom explained to me is that if the kids were outside playing with sticks and acting out the stabbings and maimings, then they would be burning off the chemical/hormonal overdrive that results from being put in stressful situations that trigger the fight or flight response. Kids just sitting in front of their monitors don't, so the theory goes, and the child in question ends up acting out aggressively in other ways.

There is no more degenerate kind of state than that in which the richest are supposed to be the best.
Cicero, The Republic


here's johnny by sobeinom (2.00 / 0) #2 Wed Apr 12, 2006 at 02:31:47 PM EST
I like Johnny Cash, but have to admit was disappointed by the movie aswell.  There was nothing that kept me glued to the seat, as a result turned it off after an hour of watching it.

  • "As for the above statement, I'll ignore it just for my well being."


  • I liked "walk the line" a lot; by johnny (2.00 / 0) #3 Wed Apr 12, 2006 at 09:10:02 PM EST
    didn't finish "Ray".

    The Ray Charles story, although certainly well acted, was depressing, and the character was pretty ugly.  And, all the talk of his genius got to be too much.  Did he do one single song that wasn't a 1-4-5 blues? I didn't think so.  Which is not to say that I don't like some of his stuff, only that I felt about Ray the way you evidently felt about Walk the Line.

    I thought Walk the Line was an interesting love story.  I liked the context of the early career of Johnny Cash, and I liked how he kept trying to reinvent himself. I thought the acting was terrific.

    About video games, I can only say the my vegetarian, formerly pacifistic, daughter got into "Twisted Metal" a few years ago and hasn't been the same since.
    Buy my books, dammit!


    Walk the Line by ucblockhead (2.00 / 0) #4 Thu Apr 13, 2006 at 12:08:14 PM EST
    I agree. After a half hour I fell into websurfing in front of it.
    ----
    ウセーバラケダ


    When I Was Just A Baby... | 4 comments (4 topical, 0 hidden) | Trackback