Any other ethical sluts out there?

Hell yeah!   3 votes - 75 %
Noooooooooope   1 vote - 25 %
Sploosh   0 votes - 0 %
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Okay, dumb question: by yankeehack (2.00 / 0) #1 Thu Aug 02, 2012 at 06:17:19 PM EST
How did you both meet willing people?
"...she dares to indulge in the secret sport. You can't be a MILF with the F, at least in part because the M is predicated upon it."-CBB
Not a dumb question at all by UberTaylor (2.00 / 0) #2 Thu Aug 02, 2012 at 06:19:40 PM EST
We've had the most success on OKCupid, as it tends to offer options for non-single people that aren't automatically relegated to the realm of "cheating". In addition, I've had some luck in meatspace (I'm fairly outgoing, my wife, less so).

We're currently spending a lot of time with another couple of similar age and with kids (one of whom is close in age to our offspring as well); that's been a rollicking good time. We met them on OKCupid. 

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Not a dumb question at all by UberTaylor (2.00 / 0) #4 Thu Aug 02, 2012 at 07:10:23 PM EST
We've had the most success on OKCupid, as it tends to offer options for non-single people that aren't automatically relegated to the realm of "cheating". In addition, I've had some luck in meatspace (I'm fairly outgoing, my wife, less so).

We're currently spending a lot of time with another couple of similar age and with kids (one of whom is close in age to our offspring as well); that's been a rollicking good time. We met them on OKCupid. 

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In my experience by dmg (2.00 / 0) #17 Fri Aug 03, 2012 at 07:00:26 PM EST
There is a lot of repressed non-monogamous tension out there. I've had 'wierd' I.e. sexual vibes from several couples of my acquaintance. The problem is crossing the rubicon, once you have "gone there" as it were, you can't really return.
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I think there's another poly here by georgeha (2.00 / 0) #3 Thu Aug 02, 2012 at 07:04:55 PM EST
but I don't recall them posting in a while.


Good to know by UberTaylor (2.00 / 0) #5 Thu Aug 02, 2012 at 07:11:23 PM EST



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*waves* by notafurry (4.00 / 2) #9 Fri Aug 03, 2012 at 11:32:49 AM EST
I read more than I post.

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In 18-36 months by anonimouse (4.00 / 1) #7 Thu Aug 02, 2012 at 10:05:18 PM EST
Anyone's relationship can be in the pooper.

At least there is a relationship *cough* but I'd better get out of my glass house before I lob bricks in random directions


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UTBNB then? by georgeha (4.00 / 2) #8 Fri Aug 03, 2012 at 07:46:30 AM EST



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Ok, so I wasn't going to say anything. by toxicfur (2.00 / 0) #19 Fri Aug 03, 2012 at 08:40:08 PM EST
But. You're being a jackass. I know a whole hell of a lot of people who have healthy, happy, and yes, ethical non-monogamous relationships. Just because it's not something that you would want (apparently) doesn't mean that other people don't negotiate what works for them. And showing your judgmental side in someone's coming out diary is a pretty assholish move.
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I know. by dev trash (2.00 / 0) #20 Fri Aug 03, 2012 at 10:30:59 PM EST
For some reason this is my button and I let it get pushed.

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ya, you can't, like, judge internet people. by the mariner (4.00 / 1) #23 Sun Aug 05, 2012 at 07:15:28 PM EST
if here, of all places, a guy can't come out of the open closet and get the acceptance and respect that befits people in openly open marriages, i don't know what!



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What'choo talkin' 'bout, Willis? by anonimouse (2.00 / 0) #24 Mon Aug 06, 2012 at 03:08:55 PM EST
En-tee


Girls come and go but a mortgage is for 25 years -- JtL
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i just wonder how many people who never post here by the mariner (2.00 / 0) #25 Mon Aug 06, 2012 at 03:26:06 PM EST
saw this discussion and thought, "you know what, i'm gonna keep not writing diaries about my open marriage after seeing that." 

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I have to say... by ucblockhead (2.00 / 0) #10 Fri Aug 03, 2012 at 11:40:33 AM EST
That the best part of monogamy is not having to worry about dating.
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and... by ana (2.00 / 0) #11 Fri Aug 03, 2012 at 12:25:50 PM EST
celibacy also. 

I now know what the noise that is usually spelled "lolwhut" sounds like. --Kellnerin

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Celibacy is the best part of monogamy? by notafurry (4.00 / 2) #13 Fri Aug 03, 2012 at 02:41:06 PM EST
That doesn't sound right...

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No, silly. by ana (4.00 / 1) #14 Fri Aug 03, 2012 at 05:26:39 PM EST
One of the good things about celibacy is not having to mess with the dating pool.

Although, during debates on same-sex marriage in the MAia legislature, one state representative opined on the floor that if what you're concerned about is gay sex, we should let them get married, because everybody here knows there's no sex after marriage. 

I now know what the noise that is usually spelled "lolwhut" sounds like. --Kellnerin

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The whole religious/conservative obsession by dmg (2.00 / 0) #16 Fri Aug 03, 2012 at 06:35:21 PM EST
Wih what other people choose to do with their own genitalia never ceases to amaze me.

It's like, I know homo/bi/les phobia exists, but I simply cannot get my head around it.

Why should you give a fuck if someone else is enjoying an "exotic" sex life? What the fuck business is it of yours?

Sex is not a zero-sum game.
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It is a can of worms to be sure. by dmg (2.00 / 0) #15 Fri Aug 03, 2012 at 06:28:05 PM EST
My main beef with monogamy is that I enjoy group sex, and monogamy puts a bit of a damper on that.

The problem with allowing someone else to "fill the gaps" in a relationship, is that that person might turn out to be better suited to your partner than you are.

Finally, if you like the open marriage thing, the next step is probably cuckoldry. Google it...
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Just wait until they invent time travel by lm (4.00 / 1) #21 Sat Aug 04, 2012 at 10:57:24 AM EST
Problem solved. You can then be monogamous and have group sex.

There is no more degenerate kind of state than that in which the richest are supposed to be the best.
Cicero, The Republic
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Wait, with worms? by Scrymarch (4.00 / 1) #22 Sun Aug 05, 2012 at 12:18:23 AM EST
I mean, it's a free country, but ewww ....

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