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I see things very plainly by theboz (4.00 / 1) #7 Mon Dec 31, 2007 at 09:49:10 AM EST

I tend to cut the bullshit, which makes some people angry, but it's just the way my personality tends to be.

Your "friend" is hedging his bets. He has a girlfriend, but he also wants you. The type of men who write stuff like that either do it to women they want to be with, or because they are gay and like writing that kind of stuff. There is no writing beautiful letters to mere friends. He's got you on the back burner in case this girlfriend doesn't work out. That shouldn't really be a problem though, since you seem to be really into him as well despite your denial.

Of course, I could be wrong as this is just $0.02 from some random guy on the internet.
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That's what I always say about you, boz, you have a good memory for random facts about pussy. -- joh3n

Oh but by moonvine (2.00 / 0) #8 Mon Dec 31, 2007 at 09:59:19 AM EST

the letter writer friend is not the same yoga loving friend that has a girlfriend I met in my class! There are not one, but two male friends mentioned here in this diary.

Haha!! My yoga loving friend would NEVER write to me the way my long distance friend does ;) Its funny to me to even imagine him doing that.

My letter writer friend is indeed into me. And me, him. He does write me beautiful odes. Sends me beautiful things. He's completely single and free. But he's so far away. If he were here I'd attack him everyday. All I am doing now is basking in the warmth that these things sometimes brings.

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Distance is meaningless by theboz (4.00 / 1) #12 Mon Dec 31, 2007 at 10:52:00 AM EST

I didn't realize they were two people. My reading comprehension skills are not the best first thing in the morning, especially when I am at work for the first time in over a week.

Anyway, if you and your letter-writing friend were really that much into each other, one of you would find a way to go to the other. In this day and age, it's not that big of a deal to move somewhere. I say this as someone married to a person who was originally in another country. Distances are easily overcome.
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That's what I always say about you, boz, you have a good memory for random facts about pussy. -- joh3n
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: I remember your diaries by moonvine (2.00 / 0) #22 Fri Jan 04, 2008 at 08:06:16 PM EST

on K5 when you were writing about her (your wife) a lot. Awww. And now you have a beautiful baby girl!
I think, I know this is going to sound super wussy, that I like this long distance thing. I feel too beat up right now for anything else. It suits me just fine, our distance. He's moving back to the West Coast when he finishes his Masters- which is where I plan on ending up anyway. Whatever is meant to be will be. I don't want to force anything. It could be that I have met the greatest platonic friend of my life. I am fine with that. Hell, right now, I am fine with it all. I hope this feeling lasts =)

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