Mirroring is more of an Eliza trick by georgeha (4.00 / 1) #21 Tue Mar 21, 2006 at 12:15:51 PM EST
But you repeat what the other person said until they agree that you understand it, it gets you past the hear what you want to not what was said thing.

Native Americans are still hip, tell her the talking stick was used at pow-wows from time immemorial by the Cherokee. I'll even make you an authentic one, drawing on my 0.2% Native Ameerican heritage.


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Why do you say is more of an Eliza trick? by MohammedNiyalSayeed (4.00 / 1) #22 Tue Mar 21, 2006 at 12:25:28 PM EST

I'd be content if she'd just be willing to discuss it without crying then switching the subject to some other random small thing. Nothing to do but wait until she's ready, I guess. I'm a big fan of directness. Apparently, other people aren't.


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You haven't talked about Eliza's mother lately by georgeha (4.00 / 1) #23 Tue Mar 21, 2006 at 12:28:14 PM EST
Writing stuff down is another way to approach a subject that's too sensitive to talk about. You can even write questions and answers back and forth.


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I shouldn't have sticks in my hands by ammoniacal (4.00 / 1) #47 Tue Mar 21, 2006 at 06:44:58 PM EST
when I talk to people. It's just the prudent thing to do.

General rules are: All skirts no lower then [sic] two inches below the knee (unless it's for Church) --Travis Frey
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I've heard of a spoon being used by georgeha (4.00 / 2) #48 Tue Mar 21, 2006 at 09:05:21 PM EST
though that loses something.


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I suppose I could try it. by ammoniacal (4.00 / 1) #49 Wed Mar 22, 2006 at 12:54:34 AM EST
As long as it's not made of wood.

General rules are: All skirts no lower then [sic] two inches below the knee (unless it's for Church) --Travis Frey
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